Natural Expression !!

There are two channels for thoughts - either you express it or not!! Thoughts can expressed at the physical, mental, spiritual level. Now the question arise is whether natural expressing of thought is fine.

Now think of a common situation - something which must have had happened to us in our school and college days - liking for the opposite sex. Now you have two options - either express you feelings or keep your mouth shut. Many of us are afraid to go and frankly tell the other person. Now it is important to realise that having a feeling for anybody is absolutely natural and therefore the expression should not be stopped.

At a spiritual level, people practice "Being natural" and then if you feel like expressing what is natural - it is also natural. But now you will say that the other person will take it otherwise and will mind. Now this is the other person problem and not yours ... so go ahead.

But here if you go to the micro level you will find that the expression can actually hurt somebody - at natural level. Now at the receiver end s/he may feel actually bad or s/he will just pretend to be bad, or something else. The second case is the problem of receiver. But in case 1, if the receivers feeling are natural, then the sender should be careful in expressing the thoughts and feelings, as it can badly hurt someone.

Now lets extend the above example of boy girl relationship. If the boy feel/ love the girl and with time he starts having natural physical touch feeling, then there is nothing wrong at the guys end. But when it comes to expression, the boy should see if the receipent girl is comfortable with the whole environment. So even if you want to express something natural, you should be cautious.

Actually all this arise from LAW OF KARMA - which say that you can choose any option at ur doorstep, but make sure the other person is affected by this. Natural expression will go wrong here when its is making the other person uncomfortable.

But i always recomment that a person should be expressive - that will make the person comfortable and place him at the lowest energy state. One will not have regret of not expressing.

So keep expressing, but a bit of caution!!